In a world that has long defined "power" in masculine terms, how do women approach it, wield it, or get kept out of it? Each book catches one stretch of that arc.
2026 · Book Recommendations · No. 17
All four authors this issue are women, circling one question. Beard digs down to the structural root—why "public speech," and power itself, were coded as male from the very beginning; Goodwin writes Eleanor Roosevelt's influence without office; Michelle Obama records the interior cost of standing at the center of power; Lung Ying-tai demonstrates the pen as power—public speech as leadership. Read together, they make a set of notes on "women and public power."
| Book | Author | Year | The one thing it makes clear |
|---|---|---|---|
| Women & Power: A Manifesto | Mary Beard | 2017 | What keeps women from power isn't some villain—it's Western culture's 3,000-year-old default about who is entitled to speak in public |
| No Ordinary Time | Doris Kearns Goodwin | 1994 | With no office and no vote, Eleanor Roosevelt turned the purely ceremonial role of First Lady into the engine of a nation's conscience |
| Becoming | Michelle Obama | 2018 | A woman at the very center of power tells, instead, an inner story about "swerving off the prescribed path" and "do I belong here?" |
| Wild Fire (野火集) | Lung Ying-tai | 1985 | With no office and no party, one woman lit a social movement with a pen—leadership can simply be the public voicing of conscience |
Beard is a Cambridge classicist, and her entry point isn't the modern workplace but Homer, in the centuries BCE. At the very opening of the Odyssey, the boy Telemachus publicly silences his mother Penelope—sends her back to her loom, telling her that speech is the business of men. Beard calls this "the first recorded example of a man telling a woman to shut up." Her argument: tying public speech to maleness isn't an accidental prejudice—it's written into Western culture at the source.
The mechanism: in ancient Greece, the capacity to deliver authoritative public speech was treated as one of the defining markers of masculinity; a woman's voice entering public space was either muted or reclassified as "shrieking, nagging, prattling" rather than "oratory." That coding has run unbroken for two millennia—from the silenced women of myth all the way to the specific abuse aimed at women who speak publicly online today (so often: shut up).
The second lecture turns from voice to power itself. The central claim: the template in our heads for "a powerful person" remains stubbornly male. Close your eyes and picture a president, or a professor—what most of us see is not a woman. So a woman in power faces an unsolvable bind: there is no slot for her in the ready-made image of power, and "we have no template for what a powerful woman looks like, except that she looks rather like a man"—the trouser suits, the deliberately lowered voice (Thatcher was coached to drop her pitch), are all moves toward that male template.
Beard's sharpest turn: stop trying to "fix the women"—coaching them to be more confident, lower-voiced, more leader-like. The problem isn't that women fall short; it's that the very concept of "power" was defined by excluding them. What needs changing isn't women but our imagination of power: if holding power always means "squeezing into a structure not built for you," maybe redesign the structure rather than keep optimizing the squeeze.
The book is slim and its arguments are sharp. It lays the floor for the whole issue: the specific difficulties the next three women face are all rooted in the structure Beard exposes.
Extremely slim (two lectures collected); the arguments are sharp but underdeveloped—on "how to redesign the structure of power" it offers direction, not a plan. The material is almost entirely Western classical and Anglo-American; the very different history of women holding power outside the West (China included) goes essentially untouched.
Beard's mechanism is concrete in the male-dominated AI / distributed-systems world. A small experiment for next week: in a technical review or decision meeting, quietly track two things—(1) who gets interrupted, and whose point gets "re-attributed" to someone else afterward; (2) whether the same firm technical judgment lands differently depending on the speaker's gender. Beard's point isn't "speak more confidently" (that's still optimizing the squeeze into the male template); it's to see clearly that when your authoritative speech is heard as "aggressive," the problem is often not your delivery but that the listener's template for "an authoritative person" has no slot for you. Attribute it to the structure first, and you won't internalize it as "I'm not good enough."
Goodwin is a Pulitzer winner and a master biographer of American presidents. This book is about the U.S. home front in World War II, but one of its true protagonists is Eleanor. Her situation is a living specimen of Beard's thesis: as First Lady she held no constitutional office and not a single vote's mandate; the template of "power" had no place for her. And yet she became one of the most influential women of the twentieth century—not by seizing an office, but by redefining a role.
Mechanism one: becoming the president's "eyes and legs." FDR's mobility was limited, so Eleanor went out across the country for him—mines, slums, Black communities, wartime factories—to see for herself, and reported back the real conditions of ordinary people. In a position where a leader is easily surrounded by staff who filter information, she was the unfiltered channel. This is power without office: influence built from information and presence, not from a title.
Mechanism two: serving as the president's conscience and his goad. Goodwin's central portrait: Eleanor was FDR's political and social conscience, his shrewd political partner, his lobbyist—and his goad. FDR wanted to do the right thing but always counted the politics first; Eleanor put conscience ahead of politics and popularity. She kept pushing him—on civil rights, housing, refugees, women's employment—to places his political calculus alone would never have reached. She often lost, but each push nudged the boundary of the possible forward.
Mechanism three: turning "no ordinary time" into a reason not to yield. The title comes from her 1940 Democratic Convention speech—she stepped to the podium amid a divided party to steady the room, declaring that this was "no ordinary time." Note the double edge: crisis can be the men's excuse for "not now—no talk of reform," but she flipped it—precisely because it is no ordinary time, the old order at home must not be left intact. She insisted: a war that leaves injustice at home untouched would not be worth winning.
What Eleanor models is one answer to the question Beard leaves open—not squeezing into the male template of power, but building another: influence made of conscience, presence, and tireless pushing, owing nothing to office.
At 700-plus pages it moves at a leisurely pace; readers wanting "leadership takeaways, fast" will find it slow—it's narrative history, not a method. The lens stays on the Roosevelts and the upper reaches of the White House; the agency of ordinary women and minorities in wartime gets comparatively little ink. Its portrait of Eleanor leans admiring, light on critique.
Eleanor's mechanism is surprisingly apt for the "AI super-individual" path—you often have to drive change in a domain you don't formally own (cross-team AI adoption, a technical direction no one authorized you to run). Two moves to borrow: (1) Be the "eyes and legs"—don't wait for authorization; become the person who has actually been to the front line and holds first-hand information no one else has. Influence can be built from information and presence, not a title. (2) Be the "goad"—pick something you judge to be right but the organization won't touch out of short-term political calculation, and push it, concretely and persistently, even after repeated noes. Eleanor's win rate wasn't high, but she moved the boundary forward inch by inch. Next week, pick one problem you have no title for but see most clearly, and start being its "eyes and legs."
Where Beard gives us structure and Goodwin a historical figure, Becoming offers the first-person inside view—what a woman actually experiences inwardly as she moves toward and inhabits the center of power. Michelle's distinctiveness isn't the "First Lady" halo; it's that she honestly writes the repeated "am I qualified?" of a Black woman from the South Side of Chicago inside elite, white, male-dominated spaces.
Core mechanism one: "becoming" is a verb, not a destination. She refuses to tell her life as a story of "having achieved a goal." Beginning and end return to the theme: becoming isn't arriving somewhere or hitting some aim, but a continuous forward motion, an evolving, a reaching ever toward a better self—a journey that doesn't end. For a high achiever used to measuring herself by "what rank, what title," this is a corrective.
Core mechanism two: the courage and cost of the swerve. She was the model of the honor-roll script all the way—Ivy League, a respectable, well-paid lawyer's post by twenty-six. Then she swerved, in search of something more meaningful. She diagnoses precisely what keeps people stuck: caring too much what others think puts you on the established, "isn't-that-impressive" path and keeps you there a long time, even stopping you from ever considering a swerve—because what you'd lose in others' high regard feels too costly.
Core mechanism three: forever the only one. As often the only Black person, the only woman in the room, she writes the constant drain of having to prove, extra, that she belongs. Her response wasn't to make herself resemble the room, but to bring her own story, origins, and voice into it—which is another answer to Beard's "you only look powerful if you look like a man": not approaching the template, but widening what the template can hold.
The book's real distinction lies in its refusal to dodge the interior cost—it's not a success manual but an honest record of identity and belonging, and that is what makes it stand out among a heap of celebrity memoirs.
The celebrity-memoir form is inherently constrained—polished, shaped with an eye to public relations, its sharpest edges softened, its politics restrained and full of careful gaps. It is a witness to individual experience; it offers no transferable method or structural analysis (that's Beard's job). Read as a book of inspirational quotes, you miss its best part—the inner honesty.
Michelle's "swerve" is a mirror for anyone chasing the "AI super-individual." The high achiever's biggest trap isn't lack of ability—it's being stuck on the "isn't-that-impressive" path: top school, big-company title, gleaming résumé, every square hard to leave. One thing to do next week: write down one "swerve" you've privately considered but never let yourself take seriously, for fear of "how it would look / whether it makes me seem to be sliding downhill" (a change of direction, doing something less prestigious that you truly believe in). Then, as Michelle diagnoses, write out concretely "the regard I'm afraid to lose"—you'll often find the jury is both vague and far less invested in you than you assumed. Remember "becoming is a verb": your current title isn't the destination, just your present position in a motion.
The first three books are Anglo-American; this one returns to the Chinese-speaking world, and to another answer to Beard's thesis. In 1984 Lung Ying-tai began a column in Taiwan's China Times; the first piece, "Chinese People, Why Aren't You Angry?", was like a struck match. She held no office at the time (public posts came years later); she relied purely on the public voicing of the written word—which is itself a kind of leadership: not commanding, not ordering, but awakening.
Mechanism one: redefining anger as civic duty, not loss of emotional control. Her aim is not some specific villain but the "cowardly and selfish" silent majority. In a culture used to treating anger as immature and forbearance as virtue, she argues: in a country running on the rule of law, people have the right to be angry—anger is evidence that citizens have not yet gone numb to public affairs.
Mechanism two: diagnosing how silence feeds "the bad." Her caustic observation—that what survives most easily in Taiwan is not the cockroach but "bad people," because everyone is timid and selfish, and as long as it hasn't come to their own bed they'd rather keep their eyes shut and feign sleep—captures the complicity structure of collective silence: it's not that no one sees the problem, it's that each person bets "not my business." This rhymes with Beard and with Eleanor: silence is the structurally encouraged default, and breaking it requires someone to speak publicly first.
Mechanism three: leadership of the pen in place of office. The leadership Lung models owes nothing to organization or authorization; it consists in being the first to say—clearly, forcefully, leaving no line of retreat—a thing many privately resent but no one says aloud. The enormous response Wild Fire drew in Taiwan proves it: public speech can itself mobilize a society—which is exactly the "public voice of women" Beard says is structurally suppressed, winning on one concrete battlefield.
To connect all four: Beard exposes how women's public voice is suppressed; Lung Ying-tai is the one who, defying that suppression, hurled her voice into public space and changed it.
It is a product of a specific 1980s Taiwan context—the concrete target of its critique (late-martial-law society) is now history, and some claims run hotter than they are precise, so today's reader must translate the context. It is a polemic, not a treatise: strong at igniting, weak at building—it tells you to be angry, but says little about how to build institutions after the anger.
Lung's mechanism is most direct for someone who happens to run a public writing platform—writing and publishing is itself her "pen as power" leadership. Next week: pick one thing in your own field (AI, tech, education) that you privately resent again and again but feel "saying it won't help / it's not my place," and write it into one clear, evidence-backed, no-hedging public piece. Lung's point: change often begins with the first person to say it clearly. The other face of this lands on parenting—rather than teaching a child to "be good, don't make trouble," model Lung's "be angry when anger is warranted": aim the anger at a concrete injustice rather than venting emotion, so the child sees what principled public expression actually looks like.
Use Beard's test to separate two cases: if someone "more like the template" (more senior, more stereotype-conforming) saying the same words would land, the problem is structural, not yours; if the content genuinely doesn't hold up, that's a delivery-or-evidence problem. Most people mistake the former for the latter, and keep "fixing themselves," sinking deeper into "I'm not good enough." Attribute first, then decide whether to change anything.
Distinguish two sources of power—"position power" comes and goes with the title; "personal power" (information, trust, irreplaceable presence) is yours. List three things you actually drove forward in the past three months and tag each by which kind it ran on. If all three ran on position, your influence is rented; any that ran on the latter is an asset you carry across environments—the real moat of an "AI super-individual."
Use Michelle's diagnosis plus a reality check: name the "jury" concretely (parents? former colleagues? some abstract "everyone"?). Then ask two things—(1) will their high regard still matter in five years? (2) how many of them would actually bear the consequences of your choice? Most people find that what holds them is an imagined audience, both vague and far less invested in them than assumed. See that, and the cost of the swerve is usually overestimated.